Love Birds

Love Birds
Ariel The Great

The wedding without bells.

We will celebrate our 5th Anniversary this coming 7th of April. It will be a time for us to celebrate our precious and treasured time we had together for the past 5 years. We never celebrate our wedding for 5 years, which is why I have stated above, "The wedding without bells" We are blessed with everything we have, we are proud and happy with all the success we have achieve. We are unlike others, we are special, and so we had a wedding without bells, without a ceremony, but even though we did not celebrate our 1st wedding, we will ALWAYS celebrate it every year as it is a reminder of our time together.

My Book is OUT

My Book is OUT
Ariel M.Lee Success Story Book is now published. It is a success book about self discovery. It is about how a simple young girl who discovery her true greatness in China. For someone who can't speak Chinese, who can’t stand the cold freezy weather can succeed in China. Where all odds are against her, she still manage to make success from nothing. And now, with the success of her school and her club, she has accomplish many achievements within 25 years. If you wish to get a copy of this success book please contact the following person below. Wl31202670@hotmail.com

About Me

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Shenyang, LiaoNing, China
Ariel Lee Mei Mei was born in Malaysia to a wonderful and successful family. Her great father, Master Freddie Lee is the 1st Master Coordinator in Malaysia. When she was little she used to follow her father to many various kinds of meetings. Her father's business allows her to travel and exposed to many countries and cultures.With her success to own an international business at the age of 20, and the background of meeting people twice her age gave her confidence. At the age of 21 she went to China and started her new life there. A country with 1.4 Billion people was a place to go and be in the wave of change and success. She has successfully extablish her position in China. She is now the author of an English Business College Book that will be publish in Beijing. She has also built a Toastmasters Club in her city with many fantastic, wonderful and successful members. And right now, she has a successful Success Team English Training School, co-branch of Freddie Lee Success Team Sdn Bhd in Shenyang with more than 100 successful, intelligent students and it growing by leaps and bounds.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

My husband's cousin's wedding.


It's a rare opportunity for me to attend a wedding in Shenyang China. The last wedding I attended was about 2 years ago. Of course most of us might think, "Oh No! wedding? I have to give wedding gifts or red packets" But I like weddings. I love to see the bride getting ready early in the morning. I love being a "Ci Mui" a person who guards the door not allowing the bridegroom to come in. I love meeting different people and watching how everything runs its own course.


Weddings in Shenyang, China are different in some ways compare to Malaysia Chinese weddings. Compare to western weddings, its even more complicated. However there are some culture differences which I manage to differentiate. First in Shenyang, the weddings are usually in the morning. We start to eat at 9.55 or 9.15 or 10.45. Each time has a different meaning, whether its for prosperity or good health. Second, the bride and bridegroom will light cigarettes to their guests and receive red packets after the light it. Sometimes, if someone can't smoke, they will either serve white wine or give a small toy. However in Malaysia, they don't light cigarettes. Basically they either cheers with their guests or take some pictures.


I had a wonderful time at my husband's cousin's wedding. And it is an honour to attend a relative's wedding in China. Not that many opportunities as most of my friends are now getting married in Malaysia but I am not back home. But still, I can treasure the wedding diffferences I have learn from each wedding experiences. It is a special day for each couple and it is good to share that moment with them.

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